Why This Speech???

Why This Speech???

Dec 13, 2025

By Linda Patten


Overcoming the Fear of Public Speaking: A Toastmasters Journey

Public speaking is a common fear, but it’s a fear that can be conquered. In a recent Toastmasters speech, one speaker shared their personal journey from childhood anxiety to confident speaking. The key? Focusing on purpose, not perfection.


The Power of Purpose

The speaker revealed that as a child, they were told they weren’t good at speaking, which fueled their fear. But over time, they learned to shift their focus from worrying about mistakes to understanding the purpose of their message. Whether you're speaking to inform, inspire, or entertain, knowing why you're speaking helps overcome fear.


Engage, Don’t Lecture

Public speaking isn’t about standing in front of an audience and delivering a lecture—it’s about engaging with them. The speaker emphasized using stories, asking questions, and creating a dialogue with your listeners to keep them involved and invested in your message.


The Power of Storytelling

Storytelling is one of the best ways to connect with your audience. By sharing personal experiences, you make your message more relatable and memorable. Stories humanize you as a speaker and create a lasting impact.


Key Takeaways

  • Focus on purpose over fear: What’s the reason behind your speech?
  • Engage your audience: Use stories, ask questions, and avoid a one-sided lecture.
  • Embrace imperfection: Your audience wants authenticity, not perfection.

By embracing these strategies, anyone can overcome their fear of public speaking and deliver an impactful, engaging presentation.

Video Link:

https://youtu.be/ZGv9af-wqOc


Linda Patten, a highly sought after Leadership Trainer and Mentor, joined Toastmasters in 2019. She has earned her DTM (Distinguished Toastmaster Award) twice. She has been selected and elected to many leadership roles at all District levels and was Toastmaster of the Year in 2021. As Club Growth Director, she has facilitated the chartering of four new club, reinstating/transferring two others. Do you think she knows training and leadership?


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